Does Everyone Have Toxic Traits? Well, every zodiac sign does?
By Antoine G Larosiliere
After being on Tiktok for almost a year, I’m starting to wonder; does everyone have a toxic trait?
Social media is constantly shedding a light on things that were always there, but haven’t paid much attention to. We’re realizing our society is more littered with narcissists and micro-aggressions than ever before. So much toxicity is being brought to light, that I’m beginning to wonder, does everyone have a toxic trait? I decided to take a closer look at the zodiac signs and their toxic traits and realized that the answer to this question was, yes. Every zodiac has toxic traits therefore, we all have them too. Not only do we all have them, but there’s pairings that are more toxic and abusive.
“They can’t take other’s feelings, wants or needs into consideration because they’re over consumed with their own.”
Aries: The self centered, bossy bully.
An Arie’s toxic or bully qualities are associated firstly with their self-centeredness. They can’t take other’s feelings, wants or needs into consideration because they’re over consumed with their own. They are arrogant, bossy, and can be impulsive; which leads to abusive acts that may be taken as bullying. Though they are good at being the boss, they often take it to an extreme and abuse their authority. Attempting to win in an argument with an Aries is extremely difficult and usually ends with your opinion or feelings being disregarded; which is also abusive. They are prone to exploding and using abusive language when their demands aren’t being met. The zodiac signs they’re likely to bully are…
Cancer: Cancers will often feel bullied by Aries because they want to relax; while Aries is being bossy and overbearing. Cancers will take offense and feel they’re being abused because their feelings, interests and opinions aren’t being valued or considered by the Aries.
Pisces: Pisceans can be very sensitive. Aries will speak and say things to a Pisces that they will find offensive and abusive. Pisces will often feel hurt and rail-roaded in the relationship because an Aries wont take time to compromise.
Capricorn: Capricorns are very regimented and will view Aries impulsiveness as abusive and inconsiderate.
“They never think they’re wrong and their ego blurs their judgment therefore, they never apologize.”
Taurus: The stubborn bully
Tauruses are stubborn or bullheaded; hence why they’re represented by the bull. They never think they’re wrong and their ego blurs their judgment therefore, they never apologize. They disregard reason and fairness leading to others feeling bullied. Their obsession with being comfortable makes them prone to being materialistic and possessive. Possessiveness in relationships often leads to abuse and jealousy. Tauruses usually don’t like fighting; but a triggered possessive Taurus can be prone to stalking and violence. Tauruses are likely to bully…
Scorpio: Taurus and Scorpio are opposites. They both like to have their way and will bully each other to gain the upper hand.
Leo: Leos are always looking for conflict and may trigger a Taurus to explode and say or do something abusive.
Aquarius: Aquarius are usually distant, while the possessive Taurus wants to be close. That conflict can lead to a Taurus getting frustrated and exploding causing the Aquarius to feel abused or bullied.
“They sometimes will go out of their way to provoke a fight or, to instigate an argument.”
Gemini: The provoking bully
Geminis are often conflicted about what they want and need. They can be vague with their intentions, and manipulative. They sometimes will go out of their way to provoke a fight or to instigate an argument. Since they can see both sides of an argument, it makes them gifted communicators; which they often use for abusive purposes. They will often lie for their own entertainment and they love to gossip. At times they struggle with skepticism due to their familiarity with lies. Geminis are likely to bully…
Sagittarius: A Sagittarius is more concerned about the overall goal and isn’t interested in all the games the Gemini will play. A Sagittarius will feel overwhelmed and bullied by all the gossiping and manipulation.
Pisces: Pisces use their intuition to guide them, which conflicts with Gemini’s factual style. Geminis will often feel confused, frustrated and overwhelmed by all the details and manipulative tactics Geminis will throw at them.
Scorpio: Scorpios are not the social butterflies that Geminis are. Scorpios will often feel pressured and uncomfortable in social situations that Geminis will place them in.
Cancer: The emotionally manipulative bully
Cancers often weaponize their love since they tend to have more emotional intelligence. They will use their knowledge of your emotional disposition to manipulate you to fulfill their own needs. They enjoy making you feel sympathy and pity for them. They are also extremely sensitive and moody and will use grudges and the silent treatment to punish you. Cancers are likely to bully the following zodiacs…
Aries: An independent Aries doesn’t ascribe to a cancer’s emotional needs and a cancer will try to punish them for it.
Capricorn: Cancers often feel misunderstood and unfairly criticized by the Capricorn through the placement of emotional limitations. This causes the cancer to get frustrated and lash out emotionally.
Aquarius: The Aquarius appears to want the same thing as the cancer but is inconsistent, and not dependable. This frustrates the cancers, because they feel deceived and misled. A cancer’s need for security will not be met with an Aquarius and the cancer will lash out at their flakiness.
Leo: The malignant narcissist
Leos have an extreme thirst for attention that can never be satisfied. They will insult, mock and belittle you In their quest for affirmation. Their egos and stubbornness is overbearing to most and pushes people away. They’re so hard on themselves and over consumed with their performances and abilities, they’ll often bully themselves; which can annoy the people around them. Leos are likely to bully the following zodiacs…
Taurus: A Leo will push a Taurus past their steadier pace and will blast them for not keeping up. A taurus can easily feel harassed and annoyed by the Leo’s presence.
Scorpio: The scorpio is more pessimistic with their views and their approach to life; while the Leo is the opposite. The two will often conflict leaving one of them feeling harassed and annoyed.
Virgo: The overly critical bully
Virgos have great analytical minds which lends to their perfectionism. They can see the flaws in every objective and in person. Their overly critical minds can at times be abusive with the spewing of constant negativity and judgment. Virgos can also be very controlling to make sure they reach a preferred outcome. They have extremely high standards and are very unforgiving when others make mistakes. They can hold a grudge for a long time which adds to their toxicity. The more they get what they want and become successful their words and actions towards you can tear down any ego. Virgos are likely to bully the following zodiacs…
Sagittarius: Virgos will tend to bully the spontaneous Sagittarius because they don’t follow through with plans, compelling the Virgo to be judgmental and controlling.
Pisces: Pisces are so random that it drives the virgo crazy. The virgo will try to control the pisces and get them to commit which will add to their conflict.
Libra: The non confrontational bully
Libras don’t like conflict; they rather use others to act out their aggression for them. They like to maintain their good standing in relationships, but manipulate others to destroy their relationships. They appear to be the least abusive of the zodiac signs, because they are people pleasers. The reality is, they are just as toxic; and their specialty is social bullying. Libras are likely to bully the following zodiacs…
Cancer: Cancers and Libras are similar because they hold onto resentment and grudges for a long time. Holding grudges and using the silent treatment are weapons they both use; which is abusive. Libra’s tendency to flirt will feel abusive to a cancer who tends to be insecure.
Capricorn: Capricorn gets frustrated with Libra’s outgoing festivities. Libras don’t like feeling they’re being parented so, they purposely rebel and passive aggressively respond to the Capricorn.
Virgo: Libra’s whimsical behavior is too random for the virgo. A virgo will try to control such behaviors causing the libra to react passive aggressively.
Scorpio: The untrustworthy bully
Scorpios demand total trust from others but constantly makes theirs hard to obtain. They will justify showing you a lack of trust by testing your loyalty, then gaslighting you about it. They will invade your privacy, but will take a huge offense if you do the same. If a scorpio finds any evidence to support the lack of trust they have, they will be consumed with revenge. They’ll even resort to playing mind games to torture your or expose the truth that they see fit. Scorpios are likely to bully the following zodiacs…
Leo: Leo can’t adapt and change as fast as a scorpio and a scorpio will use that to not trust them. Their constant snooping and skepticism will eventually force the Leo to leave or make a mistake.
Aquarius: Scorpios hate the fact that an Aquarius doesn’t like to check in or be completely transparent. It triggers the scorpios trust issues causing the scorpio to be even more likely to invade their privacy and harass the Aquarius.
Libras: Libras flirtatious ways trigger a scorpio’s trust issues. The scorpio becomes jealous and overwhelms the non confrontational libra with suspicion. Scorpios also like to flirt and tease and can become revengeful when seeing others do the same to them.
Sagittarius: The overcompensating bully
A sagittarius always seems to be overcompensating. Whatever your accomplishments are, they will try to out-do them. They try to constantly steal your attention. This is indeed a red flag and a peek to the insecurities they have. These people aren’t happy with what they’ve accomplished and hope to project that onto you. These bullies try to make you think that what you’ve done isn’t much at all. A sagittarius is likely to bully the following zodiacs…
Virgo: Virgos like structure and rules and always seem to accomplish their goals; which makes a sagittarius feel even more insecure. The sagittarius will try to one-up the virgo, but they’ll look ridiculous in the process. The sagittarius takes way too many risks, and the highly critical virgo will criticize them dismantling what’s left of their fragile ego.
Pisces: A sagittarius is more optimistic than a pisces, and a pisces will take offense to a sagittarius downplaying the seriousness of a situation. The pisces is too sensitive to handle when the sagittarius is trying to out-do their emotions or the stories they tell and would rather them be understanding.
Aquarius: The cold-hearted bully
An Aquarius who doesn’t have any interest in you can be very cold. They constantly crave mental stimulation and don’t empathize with whom they betray, hurt or leave behind. They are selfish and self centered and are often sarcastic when speaking with others. They suppress their emotions, making them unlikely to heal from trauma or fix problems. It also leaves them with very few close relationships, because they are often detached. An Aquarius is likely to bully the following zodiacs…
Taurus: A taurus will constantly feel rejected by an Aquarius because they are more relationship-oriented. The taurus’s need for that relationship will set them up to be abused emotionally by the Aquarius and have trust issues.
Scorpio: A scorpio is too passionate for often detached or emotionally unavailable Aquarius. A scorpio will be disregarded, and take the actions of the Aquarius personally.
Pisces: The covert narcissist
Pisces are the champions of playing victim. Their narcissism is characterized by self-sacrifice. They take on emotional burdens unnecessarily only to throw it in your face later. Their emotions take precedent over what anyone else is going through. Sometimes you can feel emotionally manipulated by a pisces. It’s easy to be misled by their sacrificial, sympathetic, and loving ways; but it might be a set up. They will use those qualities to get you to do their will. If you don’t, they will hold it over your head and make you feel guilty about it. Pisces are likely to bully the following zodiacs…
Gemini: A pisces will often try to emotionally manipulate a gemini, who feeds on reason. When the gemini doesn’t accommodate the pisces emotion, the pisces will take several passive aggressive tactics to coerce them.
Sagittarius: A pisces will bully a sagittarius because the sagittarius likes to socialize; which takes attention away from the pisces. A sagittarius also has the tendency to rationalize and philosophize a pisces’ emotional disposition which will anger and turn the pisces against them.
Libra: A pisces will often get frustrated and lash out at a libra because of their flirtatious ways, that may even lead to infidelity. A pisces will often feel emotionally vulnerable and will try to manipulate the libra to be more emotionally accommodating.
Capricorn: The overly ambitious bully
A Capricorn’s overly ambitious ways can be overwhelming and contentious at times. Capricorns can come off as overbearing and demanding; making others feel harassed and stressed. A Capricorn’s focus is power and they lack sensitivity; so, this often leads them to saying awful things given the situation. Capricorns are likely to bully the following zodiacs…
Aries: A Capricorn demanding nature can cause an Aries to flip out, since they’re hot-headed. A rational Capricorn and an Aries tend to have intense arguments; where the Aries will feel hurt by the Capricorn’s cold approach.
Libra: Libras are too frivolous for capricorns who prefer to be conservative. A Capricorn will try to suppress a Libra’s carefree ways and make them feel bad about it.
Gemini: Geminis are too out-going for the reserved consistency of a Capricorn. Capricorns often get frustrated by Geminis, and can react passive aggressively towards the gemini for not finishing what they start or, lacking focus.
It’s not easy to always get along with others and have a connection. Most of us come from dysfunction and each zodiac can exhibit toxic tendencies that are sometimes labeled as bullying. Educating ourselves and becoming familiar with these traits will help in minimizing bullying and foster healthier relationships. I hope this has been helpful. Also visit my YouTube channel for more insight to these topics.